Nothing to be sorry for

I've been told by a person close to me that I shouldn't be gloating over my divorce and the newfound freedom and happiness that it has brought me, especially in the arena of social media. This person was concerned about how my ex would handle it and that perhaps he would give me a hard time about it. There's also the issue of my other friends who are currently going through it or have been though it who haven't had such positive experiences with it who might not react so positively to my experiences.

As for the ex, he has distanced himself from social media since the divorce, but I still keep in contact with some of his family and friends by that means. Obviously, there's always a small chance that information could be filtered to him via them. That's where I'm especially thankful that he and I on friendly terms. Whatever good things come his way, I am genuinely happy for him; I believe he shares the same sentiment for me.

As for my friends, I am sensitive to where they are in their respective journeys. I will rejoice with them when they're rejoicing and I will cry with them when they're crying. It doesn't depend on my state of mind at the moment. Hopefully, they'll have the same attitude. Our stories are different, but I've probably experienced what they're feeling, good or bad, at some point and can relate. Regardless, I will love them unconditionally and stand with them whatever they're going through.

I really feel that there is no need to apologize for being happy and my enthusiasm in sharing my newfound happiness and joy with the world. God has blessed me a great deal! For those of you who are really struggling right now with the fallout of your divorce or impending divorce, please know that there is light at the end of the tunnel and that you will be happy again sooner or later (hopefully sooner). My heart goes out to you and if you happen to know me personally, my shoulder is here for you to cry on.

Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. (Romans 12:15 NIV)